I’m Alan, and I met Jude for the first time in April 2010.. and we got on like a ‘house on fire’… amazing.!! But then, of course, our friendship was stopped in its tracks when she was in an rta with a bus, which she could not survive… so very sad… The ‘best dating site match’ I’d had.. and there she was.. gone. I don’t think this is something I will ever recover from, I’ve been so tragically damaged by this event.. but of course Jude’s damage was terminal.. ..so worse still.. Alan